For years Sheba lived on the streets with
Georgina. "When it was cold, she kept me warm," Georgina recalled
recently, "and if I got attacked, she protected me."
Sheba was a patient, loving German shepherd
mix whose excess belly fat and low-hanging nipples gave testimony to her
maternal nature. Everyone on skid row — kids, cops, prostitutes, pimps — loved
her. But her best friends were the homeless street addicts who live outside our
Catholic Worker soup kitchen, particularly Georgina.
Humans are hard-wired to need strong
connections with other humans, and that children need "an attachment
connection with at least one reliably available, protective, psychologically
present, and reasonably non-stressed adult."
A dog is no substitute, certainly, for a
loving, stable family or for strong human bonds. But most of the addicts on
skid row haven't known nurturing families for years, if they ever did. Sheba
stepped into a void in Georgina's life, and she made a difference.
On June 26, Sheba was hit by a car and killed.
Her memorial service was held in the dining garden of our soup kitchen, but
Georgina was not among the more than 30 mourners who attended. Her therapist,
fearful of a possible relapse, advised her not to attend. The gathering was
full of fond memories of Sheba, but toward the end there was one awkward
moment. Was it theologically orrect, we wondered, to pray for a dog? But then
someone in the crowd called out, "Let us pray for the loving gift that
Sheba was to our community."
We did. And the people of skid row said,
"Amen."
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